Thursday, September 24, 2009

An Evening with Sir Paul

Having recently been blessed with the opportunity to stand in the presence of a living legend, I found myself compelled to write about it and capture the memory! I think the story can best be told from the point of how the tickets came to be in the first place …

Larry mentioned in July that Paul McCartney was coming to Dallas in August on his summer tour, and he was considering getting tickets. He was a fan on Paul’s website, and alerted of the ability to purchase tickets in advance. He knew they would be expensive, but the waning opportunities to see this him seemed to supersede the cost. He was also graduating with his MBA, so the tickets would have been a great present to himself. AND a great chance to see the brand new Cowboys Stadium, before a football game had ever been played there.

As luck would have it, some identity thief had gotten a hold of his debit card and he had his bank cancel the card and reissue a different number. It was during this period of time that the tickets went on sale. He knew that if he wanted a shot at getting them, he would have to use his corporate card, and didn’t want to bother with having to ask for permission, or explain the exorbitant charge before he had a chance to pay it back.

So, he told me that he decided against it, and I was disappointed for him. I have always been a Beatles fan - who hasn’t? But I haven’t made much of a point to follow Sir Paul’s post-fab 4 solo efforts. Larry on the other hand, had. I reasoned with him that if he was truly a fan, he would kick himself for not going for it and reminded him that this may be his last opportunity to see a Beatle. There have been rampant rumors that this would be a leg of Paul’s final tour, after all.

Then one morning in early August, we were at his apartment getting ready to go out to breakfast. I was in the bathroom examining my pores or something when he called, "Hey come over here and check out this letter I got." He handed me an envelope containing two tickets to the show! How cute is that?! It's like something my dad would do. I love surprises, but for one reason or another, it doesn’t happen very often. I was so excited that he actually got the tickets, I didn't even pay enough attention enough to notice that the seats were in the fifth row!!!

We coordinated the day very carefully, making sure to eat dinner nice and early and factor in plenty of time for traffic. On this particular night, in addition to regular the rush hour and concert traffic, there was a Ranger’s game going on right next door at the same time – the makings of a “perfect storm”, and the first time the City of Arlington would have to test out such a double-header scenario.

We left early and traffic wasn't bad at all, and we got there earlier than we expected. The only downfall of the evening was having to wait out in the blazing heat a little longer than we anticipated because their sound checks ran long, and our assigned entrance was on the sunny side. Not the most pleasant of experiences, but completely overlookable in the grand scheme of things.

The new stadium is gargantuan and pretty on the outside, but aside from the slew of slick looking suites and HUGE LCD jumbotron inside, it looked just like any ol' stadium (apparently there are all these swanky little areas the regular public can't access unless they pay more than their ticket price, but it wasn't an issue that night).


After a brief 40-minute set by opening band The Script, the packed stadium was a buzz with anticipation. To help fill the space between bands while the stage crew did their thing, two large digital screens flanking the stage began streaming an elaborate animated collage of Beatles photos, newspaper headlines, videos, cartoons and other graphics.

When Paul and his band finally came out, they simply walked out on stage. There was no cloud of smoke, no fancy mechanisms lowering or raising him onto the stage. They didn’t even kill the house lights. They all just walked out on stage, waved to the audience and began playing.



Drive My Car

Jet

Only Mama Knows

Flaming Pie

Got to Get You Into My Life

Let Me Roll It

Foxy Lady

Highway

The Long and Winding Road

My Love

Blackbird

Here Today

Dance Tonight

Calico Skies

It’s So Easy

Mrs Vanderbilt

Eleanor Rigby

Sing the Changes

Band on the Run

Back in the USSR

I’m Down

Something

I’ve Got a Feeling

Paperback Writer

A Day in the Life

Give Peace a Chance

Let it Be

Live and Let Die

Hey Jude

Lady Madonna

I Saw Her Standing There

Yesterday

Helter Skelter

Get Back

Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely Hearts Club Band/The End

He played for three hours and we were honestly stunned at his energy, from guitar to mandolin, to piano and back and forth. Two encores, great mix of old Beatles, Wings, and solo Paul. He indulged us with stories of his also legendary friends: John, George (to whom he dedicated a lovely version of Something, that he played on a mandolin George had given him), Jimi Hendrix (as he went into Foxy Lady), and Buddy Holly. Since we're in Texas and Buddy was born in Lubbock, they played a version of It’s so easy, just for us. Dedicating My Love to “all the lovers out there - you know who you are,” as he told us how he wrote the song for Linda. It was one of my more favorite and touching moments of the night.


Before he played Here Today, he indulged us by sharing the heartfelt motivation for having written the song. He told us that he wrote it after John died, because unfortunately when you lose someone, you don’t always get the opportunity to tell them everything you want to.


Right along side it, when he told the story behind one of my favorite songs, Blackbird, and followed up with a moving acoustic version. He said it was the 60s, and he knew what a racially difficult time it was in America. He wrote the song thinking of the potential trials of a young black girl.

When he played Hey Jude, the end of the song elapsed into elongated rounds of “na-na-na-na’s”, where he let the audience sing along in various segments (men, women, balconies, etc.)

The most exciting moment must have been during Live and Let Die. There we were singing along, completely unsuspecting and in the groove of the song, when sudden blasts of fire and pyrotechnics erupted from the stage. Needless to say, we felt like our faces were sunburned from the fitth row!

The main body of the show ended on an energetic note, with a stream of upbeat songs flowing one into the other. It was at the end of the first encore when Paul graced us with Larry’s favorite song, Yesterday, during another quiet acoustic moment. The second encore was fast-paced and closed the show with a bang before we knew what hit us. But we did what we could to completely soak in the entire experience, not wanting to let go of a single moment.

Though it was late, and a work night, when we got home, we laid in bed for more than an hour just recalling impressions from the night. We hadn’t wanted it to end, and were both sad the following day that it was over. You know how it is when you look forward to something so much, and then it’s gone? Luckily, I am documentarian supreme! And I feel so lucky and blessed to have lived the experience. It was A-MAZ-ING! It was once in a lifetime.

Sunday, July 12, 2009

A note of thanks

Goodbye Michael!
Thank you for all your joyous gifts.


It's true, I haven't thought much of you in the last 2 decades, but the flood of music arising with your death transcends me back to my childhood, when I had the biggest crush on you, and always kissed the poster of Thriller I hung on my door.



Be at peace knowing you have left the world more than a lifetime of music for which we have made the soundtrack to our lives, and we'll never forget you!


Thursday, January 29, 2009

Mama love the Neiko - ALWAYS!

Daytime TV plagues my unemployment, even though I realize it's completely within my control not to watch it. And it was Fran Drescher on the Bonnie Hunt Show, of all people and all things, that inspired me in my little anniversary thoughts on Neiko.

They were talking about how painful it is to lose a pet, and how they question their own sanity when it comes time to bring another into their home and lives. Fran wondered why God made it so that our little companions' lives are so much shorter than ours. How can we keep doing this to ourselves, to continually have pets and endure the inevitable same. Over the passing of a dog she adored, she said that she realized she was never going to stop missing and loving him, and maybe that is one of the intended lessons: that there is supposed to be love after love. (Of course this translates to romantic relationships too.) So when it was time for her, she went out and got a  little puppy that "said nothing about yesterday and everything about today and tomorrow." That really spoke to me.

Who knew that behind one of the most famously abrasive voices in pop culture is a woman with such a spiritually evolved outlook that she would reach me with her thoughts on this topic? Certainly not me.

Since I can't justify spending the money on body art while I'm out of work, I'm designing a tattoo tribute to my Neiko. I'll get it done when the time is right.

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

My adventures with Flat Stanley (to be read as through you're about 6)

When Flat Stanley came to visit me, I was busy packing to move from Seattle, Washington to Dallas, Texas! I was driving in my car the whole way, so I was happy to have him along for the ride!

I brought him along with me on my last day at work in Seattle, when my desk was all cleaned out and I was ready to go! We celebrated with friends and munched on delicious chocolate cupcakes!

Here’s Flat Stanley waving hello and goodbye to the Space Needle from my apartment!

We started out on a rainy Wednesday afternoon, but driving was slow with all the other cars out on the road with us. We only got as far as Portland, Oregon that night, about 3 hours south of Seattle.

But the next day we made good time, and before we knew it we were in …
CALIFORNIA!

We decided it was time to have some fun so we visited the Winchester Mystery House in San Jose. It’s a strange old house with 160 rooms (some were never finished), staircases that went straight up to the ceiling, and 2,000 doors, some of them on the second and third floors lead to the outside! Yikes, watch your step!


In the gift shop, there was a Zelda fortune telling machine, so we got a fortune – “Life is so busy for you. No time for rest. Too much to do.” – and that was very true!
And of course we got our photo taken in the photo booth!


Then it was back in the car and down the beautiful California coast – just like in the movies!


In Arizona, we stopped for a bite to eat on the historic Route 66, which goes through 8 of the United States (Illinois, Missouri, Kansas, Oklahoma, Texas, New Mexico, Arizona and California).


Then before we knew it we were in Texas!


We stopped to see the tallest cross in the world – it must have been the biggest thing in the tiny town of Groom. Everything really is bigger in Texas!


Driving through the skinny part of Texas (we call it the panhandle) doesn’t take long and right on the other side of the eastern border is Oklahoma!


We stopped to visit with my parents (Haley’s great aunt and uncle) …


… and we went to a ladies’ basketball game at the University of Oklahoma, where my dad teaches science.
Flat Stanley liked the halftime show the best!

On the next day we crossed back into a state we had visited before … Texas!


Since the Texas panhandle sticks up on the west side, we drove through it twice!

Then at long last … .my new HOME in Dallas!

Flat Stanley and my cat Seuss became fast friends!


Before I sent him on his merry way, I showed Flat Stanley Reunion Tower, a building on the Dallas skyline. The globe lights up at night and you can eat at the panoramic restaurant at the top that slowly rotates so you can see the view in every direction while you eat!


Flat Stanley and I saw amazing and beautiful things along our 3,000 mile journey all the way from Washington State: snow-capped mountains, Sequoia trees as tall as the eye could see, the balmy Pacific Ocean along Highway 1 on the California coast, surfers and sea lions, cows and sheep, vistas, mesas, buttes, valleys, bluffs, and desert! We drove over rivers and ponds and washes and streams, the big Colorado River, the Little Colorado River! We drove by a Hidden Valley Ranch - I didn’t know that such a place existed! Oh and we also raced with a train and won! We saw signs to watch for rocks and deer and elk, and ice and something that looked like wild boar! We drove from Seattle through Tacoma, Portland, Salem, Eugene, Medford, Eureka, Ukiah, Monterey, Carmel, Cambria, Bakersfield, Barstow, Needles, Kingman, Flagstaff, Gallup, Amarillo, Norman, Tecumseh, Denton, Lewisville and finally Dallas – just to name a few! Flat Stanley was an excellent traveling companion, and I hope he had as much fun as I did! Thank you Haley for letting me take him on the road!

Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Mama love the Neiko

Sweet boy, I can hardly compose myself enough to write anything about you now at this moment on the day I had to let you go, but I will say this: I am a mess and miss you terribly already! I want some kind of assurance that you are warm and happy and joyful, and that I made the right decision. But for now I just feel extreme sorrow and acute pain and a HUGE void that not Seuss or anyone else could possibly fill. Ever.
I do have the most wonderful friends. They let me talk and cry and they cried with me. They know better than to think I could even try to contain myself and I love them for that.
I feel numb. In the middle of this move. I have to keep going, whether I want to or not. Whether I think I'm strong enough or not. And now I have to do it without you. I'm just devastated and my only solace could arise from knowing that you aren't suffering. You have been the most amazing companion to me, during a third of my life. You were with me four times as long as any guy, and through friendships I broke off long ago. I think even though it all happened pretty fast, that you had suffered enough.I just love you to the very end, and imagine that you are free.

Monday, January 21, 2008

Coming soon to a torso near me ...

Well, coming soon to my torso!

... which will have to do until I can get my hands on this:

They appear to be in high demand at the moment for some reason. (I am of course being sarcastic. Brett Favre rocks and is awesome.)